i understand that this is a blog, and on blogs, it's like exposing your private thoughts to the public, but is there a need to be so mean and suan? you can say whatever you want, but please think of the consequences. even if you dont care a shit about what that person thinks at least spare a thought for others. first of all, how do you think the person will feel when they realise that they are the ones being spoken of, and behind their back at that? don't think that just because this is a free country and we are allowed free speech, we can say whatever we want. if so, then why do you think people are jailed for what they say on private blogs? as much as we want to believe that this is a perect world and that the earth evolves around you, it is not that way at all times. face it. this is life, you are not in charge of what happens, what does not, so don't try to act it does, just so that you can feel a head above the rest. when life isn't what you want it to be, fine, you can complain, don't try to bottle it up as it will only make things worse. okie, i don't mind, we are all humans, we all have feelings, our own ups and downs, our own trials and tribulations, its OKAY. just when you speak, please spare a thought for others, even when you apologise, if you ever do, it'll never be the same again. the damage is already done and it is there. even heard of "yi yan ji chu, si ma nan zui"? for those who do not understand, the literal translation means that once spoken, even horses can't chase it back. (pls rmb that in ancient China, they did not have aeroplanes).you may find great satisfaction at having blown off all your steam, but this is at the expense of others and at your own friendship. is it worth it? think about it. well, at least now i know how you really feel. words spoken in an arguement are mostly true, and the truth hurts. cos in an arguement, mostly you are too agitated to mind your words, and words are mostly spoken when and where they feel like it. thats why i believe that if you really want to know what a person thinks about you, just get into an arguement.
true, sometimes i'm like that too, i talk, crap, shoot, shout, suan and scold people, whether unintentionally or not. i complain too, i'm a human, not a unfeeling robot. at least i do not try to broadcast to the entire world about it. but maybe i'm just like the rest.
it's the same in everyday life,
so do not say things that you do not really mean, cos when you take it back, it's already too late. the damage is already done. remember that. i'm tired.
choices have consequences, words spoken are the same
~kiaa
& all along, its only what I thought.
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